how we judged people

Tell me what’s your speculation when you :
Scenario 1 -see two hot good-looking guys walking together?
Scenario 2 - see a boyish girl holding hand with a sexy chick?
Don’t fake it… nowadays most of us will answer these…
Scenario 1 – they are GAY!!!
Scenario 2 – LESBIAN!!!
And sometimes… both answers end up with a disgusting “EURGH~” or maybe to begin with… or… “wow! that’s hot~” perhaps?
Now tell me what’s your speculation when you :
Scenario 3 – see two ordinary stereotype guys walking together?
Scenario 4 – see two lady-like girls walking hand in hand in public?
I bet most of us will answer this…
Scenario 3 and 4 - … is there anything wrong with that?

Those are just some examples how we, Malaysians especially the youngsters interpret things~
New generations always condemn the veterans… saying that they are too narrow-minded…
But the truth is, we are in the same league…
We judge people by their looks…
We never know whether those guys and girls in Scenario 1 and 2 are really homosexual if we don’t know them WELL…
And we never know those guys and girls in Scenario 3 and 4 are straight…

So now, I’m asking a question…
Are we doing fair here??
If we don’t want people to judge us, why should we judge others?


p/s – wondering what is the difference between the terms GAY, HOMOSEXUAL, LESBIAN, PENGKID~